Diet mistake number 1: Crumbs don’t count
Many women eat healthy meals and snacks but they forget about the mindless munching they do at other times, for instance, the food left on the children’s plate, the chips on their partner’s plate, the broken biscuit left over after a cuppa or in the tin or the taste testing and glass or wine during cooking. Four bites a day is 100 extra calories. In a month’s time, that’s nearly a pound of extra weight. Mindless munching is a habit and like any habit it can be broken. Eat only at meal times and snack times and if you get the urge to eat at other times graze on fruit or vegetables. If you’re tempted to nibble when you cook have a cup of peppermint tea – it can be unpleasant nibbling on food with the taste of peppermint in your mouth.
Diet mistake number 2: Skipping breakfast
Most women know that breakfast is the most important meal of the day because it gets your metabolism going, keeps your blood sugar levels balanced and stops you reaching for sugary snacks mid morning. But despite knowing that ‘fat people skip breakfast’ many women continue to skip breakfast in the misguided belief it will earn them extra calories later in the day. Therefore one of the most important healthy eating habits I try to instil into my patients is to eat a healthy breakfast every morning and never to skip meals. Study after study has shown that breakfast eaters are more alert and less likely to overeat during the day. You don’t need to eat traditional breakfast foods but you do need to eat foods that are healthy and good for you. Studies have also shown that people who skip meals are more likely to gain weight because their metabolism slows right down and their blood sugar is unstable which triggers food cravings. So keep your metabolism boosted and your blood sugar levels stable every day by eating a hearty breakfast, followed by a healthy mid morning snack, lunch, and mid afternoon snack and rounded up with a light supper.
Diet mistake number 3: Taking weekends off
Many of my patients with weight issues tend to eat healthily during the working week but then when the weekend comes they switch off and unwind. Switching off and unwinding at the weekend is highly recommended but this does not have to mean eating too much of the wrong foods. If your healthy eating plan is enjoyable there should be no reason at all why you need a break at the weekends. I always stress to my patients that healthy eating is not a diet as such – in that it begins on a certain date and ends when you reach a certain weight – but a lifelong commitment to eating food that will boost your health and well being and keep the weight off in the long term. Every day is as important as the other and your healthy eating plan should not be about sacrifice and guilt. You can include treats and favourite foods in your diet – you just need to make sure you fit them in healthily. That’s why I recommend the 80/20 rule. If you’re eating healthily the majority of the time you can afford the odd indulgence now and again.
Diet mistake number 4: Liquid calories
What you drink during the day counts towards your daily calorie intake in the same way as the food you eat. If you’re drinking just one sugary drink a day this can pack on 15 pounds in a year so you need to make sure you are drinking liquids that are low or no calorie beverages. And if you’re a fan of speciality coffees, with a lot of milk and syrups, you need to be aware that some mugs can pack a massive 400 calories so you need to decide if it really is worth it. Switch fancy coffees for refreshing herbal teas and sugary soft drinks for water and diluted fresh fruit juice.
Diet mistake number 5: Shopping in a hurry
If you’re hungry there is one place you should never go and that is to your supermarket. Shopping when you’re hungry makes you more likely to fill your basket with junk and high calorie food. To avoid this make sure you have a healthy snack before you go shopping and prepare a shopping list. Alternatively you could skip the checkout and go online as you are more likely to stick to your list.
Diet mistake number 6: Overtime
According to a study in the International Journal of Obesity women who work more than 40 hours a week are more likely to gain weight during the year that those who leave work earlier. The reason for this is a combination of fatigue and stress. If you are tired and stressed from working long hours you are less inclined to exercise and more likely to reach for sugary, fatty snacks to give you a boost. In addition, women’s bodies are programmed to cling onto fat, especially around the middle, when they experience high levels of stress. If overtime is essential or stress is unavoidable take regular mood lifting breaks. Find out what times during the day you are most likely to hit a slump and then do something playful or soothing to produce feel good hormones that can beat stress. You could listen to your favourite music on your Ipod, phone a friend or better still, do some exercise or gentle toning.
Diet mistake number 7: Rewarding yourself after a workout
If you exercise regularly every day or every few days you deserve a pat on the back as this is a vital step towards a healthy lifestyle and a trim body to match but if you celebrate with a bar of ‘well deserved’ chocolate every time you work out you are making a big mistake. A study from the University of Ottawa revealed that women ate about 120 more calories following intense exercise than after a lighter workout that burned the same calories. If you feel that you need a treat every time you exercise it is important to take a look at your workout routine as it is likely that your workout is too tough or intense. What you need to be aiming for is a moderate to light workout that makes you feel so good afterwards that you don’t feel the need to eat anything unhealthy. Jogging, brisk walking and dancing are all great activities to boost your mood and keep hunger at bay and if you do feel hungry afterwards treat yourself with some fresh fruit and a handful of nuts and seeds.
Diet mistake number 8: E-mail addiction
These days it is virtually impossible not to spend a large portion of your day in front of the computer. Try to avoid entire days when you are sedentary and slip movement into your day as much as you can. Stand up when you’re talking on the phone, and deliver at least five messages a day in person. You can use up to 100 calories daily this way which can help burn off nearly a pound each month.
Diet mistake number 9: Comfy clothes
When you start shopping for elastic waist bands and comfy baggy clothes you need to take extra care because it is so easy to miss the cues that you are putting on weight when you wear clothes like this. I sometimes tell my patients to ditch their baggy clothes and wear their favourite pair of tighter fitting jeans at the weekends – the days most women tend to eat more. And once they have dropped a size I urge them to give their larger clothes away to a charity shop so they won’t be tempted to reach for them again.
Diet mistake number 10: Rapid eating
Many women today are so busy that they never actually sit down and take their time over a meal. Instead they race to the finish and eat so rapidly their digestive system doesn’t stand a chance. It is really important for us all to carve time into the day for a more leisurely, Mediterranean approach to eating where every bite is savoured, tasted and chewed over. Taking time over your meals gives your brain the signal for fullness it needs to prevent overeating.