1. Early morning snoozes can actually make you more tired. Have you ever hit the snooze button on the alarm clock at least a dozen times at the start of your day, vowing to sleep for five more minutes only? This technique of sleeping briefly will not give you more energy, but will actually make you drowsier. When the alarm clock goes off, sit up slowly, breathe deeply, and gradually get yourself out of bed. A stress-free day begins the moment you wake up, so don’t stress your body first thing in the morning.
2. Coffee, or any form of caffeine, will actually stress your body if you take too much at the beginning of your day. Research shows that coffee works in small, frequent doses, so if you must drink coffee, drink smaller servings every few hours. A large cup or two at breakfast will actually make you sluggish, and you may have a harder time keeping your concentration. You could try switching to apples. Eating apples at the beginning of your day can pep you up and keep you alert, and they are healthier fare than coffee, too.
3. Don’t skip meals. Stress can make your body more susceptible to illness, and skipping meals will make you sicker than ever. If you have a hard time staying awake at your desk, bring healthy snacks with you, such as carrot sticks or celery sticks, so that you can snack while you work. This tip works for dieters as well: studies show that smaller food portions taken at more frequent intervals can actually help you lose weight.
4. Don’t underestimate the power of exercise. If your office has a gym, take advantage of the proximity and do a few minutes of exercise at the end of each day. Exercise releases endorphins, which can increase your energy and makes you feel better about yourself. Stress will make you feel lethargic and dull, feelings that exercise can help ease.
5. Engage in as much human contact as you can. Don’t stress yourself out if people keep interrupting you: human contact can actually help you relax and get your mind off your tasks. It can also help you think out of the box, and allow you to find solutions to your problems or dilemmas.
6. Get a good night’s sleep: Sleep is essential to your health and wellbeing and your ability to cope with the stresses of daily life. Lack of sleep not only raises stress hormones but research shows that it also interferes with blood sugar levels and increases your risk of depression.
7. Vitamins and minerals: The adrenals rely on vitamin C, vitamin B, zinc and magnesium to make hormones and function well, and these are rapidly decreased when you’re under stress. So support your adrenal glands by eating a healthy balanced diet with lots of fruit and vegetables and whole grains and take a good multivitamin and mineral every day with an extra vitamin C supplement.
8. Deal with short term stress, such as sitting in heavy traffic, with simple relaxation techniques such as tensing your muscles and relaxing them or deep breathing to a count of ten. Other techniques for short term stress include stretching, talking with friends, drinking calming herbal teas like chamomile or lemon balm, having a good laugh, stroking your pet, day dreaming about relaxing places you’ve been to or hugging some one you love.
9. Research has shown that massage can help lower blood pressure, improve breathing, boost mood and wellbeing and aid circulation. Some experts believe that massage helps the brain produce endorphins, the chemicals that act as natural painkillers. The sense of well-being you get from a massage can lower the amount of stress hormones circulating in your body. Yoga is also a great stress reducer with studies suggesting that it can help prevent depression. MIND, the UK’s leading mental health charity recommends yoga as the single most effective stress buster. Meditation is another good way to deal with mental and physical stress.
10. Set aside time to relax every day no matter what and try not to be a perfectionist. The housework can wait, the phone can ring without you always answering it and if the kids are screaming, putting them to bed half an hour earlier so you can get some much needed relaxation isn’t going to hurt. If you’re tired give yourself a break – you deserve it.

Remember, you can fight stress by keeping yourself healthy, and by allowing your body a bit of rest every time it gets tired. As long as you manage your time wisely, eat the right foods, and sleep well, you don’t need to be stressed out about the ill effects of stress.

According to a study by Japanese scientists, sniffing lavender or rosemary oil for just five minutes a day can reduce levels of a harmful stress hormone called cortisol.

It is known to cause oxidative stress, a destructive process that damages healthy cells. In the latest study, researchers at Meikal University, Japan, recruited 22 healthy volunteers and took saliva samples to test for a range of substances including cortisol.

Each one had to spend five minutes inhaling lavender or rosemary oil before the tests were repeated. The results in the Journal of Psychiatry Research showed a sharp drop in cortisol levels after sniffing the oil.

A certain amount of stress is good – as it keeps you motivated and on your toes – but pushing yourself too hard can damage your health. Scientists agree that stress can have a negative impact on your overall health. Studies have shown that stress is or may be a contributing factor in everything from backaches and insomnia to cancer and chronic fatigue syndrome.

Heart disease is the number one killer of women. High blood pressure, heart attacks, heart palpitations, and stroke may be stress-related cardiovascular conditions. Some women experience changes in their sexuality and encounter various sexual dysfunctions such as loss of sex drive and vaginal dryness as a result of stress.

Often people feel the effects of stress as fatigue, various aches and pains, headaches, or as emotional disorders such as anxiety, depression, and sleep disturbances. Stress affects others by causing gastrointestinal disorders such as ulcers, lower abdominal cramps, colitis, and irritable bowel syndrome. Frequently people under the effects of over-stress will have more colds and infections due to lowered immune system responses and suffer from dermatological conditions such as itchy skin and rashes. Stress is also a key factor when women experience either absence of menstruation or abnormal bleeding. Hormonal imbalances caused by stress may trigger the symptoms of fibroid tumours and endometriosis, as well as make pregnancy difficult to achieve for couples with fertility problems.

And if all that isn’t enough stress can also make you fat! When you are stressed your adrenal glands pump out stress hormones such as cortisol which can trigger blood sugar imbalances that can trigger weight gain especially around the middle. Abdominal fat is a predictor of diabetes, cancer and heart disease and studies show that women with belly fat whether overweight or not produce more of the stress hormone cortisol than women without belly fat. Women with high levels of cortisol are also more likely to overeat than women without these high levels.

So any woman watching her health and her weight, especially those worried about midlife waist gain, needs to keep a very, very careful eye on her stress levels. Eliminating stress completely from your life is impossible. However, implementing some stress management techniques can reduce most of its harmful effects. Stress management includes following a healthy diet, getting regular exercise and plenty of relaxation. Use the stress management techniques below to beat your stress triggers and spring clean your body and mind so you feel happier, healthier and lighter.

Stress management
Certain nutrients such as the B vitamins – especially B5 and B6 – vitamin C and the essential fatty acids can be extremely helpful if stress is a problem as they will help boost the functioning of your adrenal glands. You should be getting these nutrients from your healthy menopause diet but if you are under stress you might want to add in more B vitamins, found in nuts and whole grains, essential fats found in oily fish, nuts and seeds and plenty of vitamin C found in citrus fruits, as when you are stressed you lose more vitamin C than at any other time and vitamin C is vital for keeping your immune system strong. (Check out the list of anti-anxiety foods at the end of this article).

• Concentrate on your breathing and slow it down to a 10-second cycle, six breaths a minute. Inhale for five seconds and then exhale for five seconds. Do this for about 2 to 5 minutes. If this doesn’t work jog on the spot, punch something like a cushion or count to ten.
• Talk to friends, family or partners. If you don’t feel you can talk to anyone a trained counsellor may help you get in touch with your feelings and give you tips on how to deal with stress.
• Try the herbal remedy Valerian for stress-related anxiety and insomnia. This sedative has been shown to help people fall asleep faster, sleep better and longer without causing loss of concentration.
• Take time out. For five minutes every hour, try to ‘shut down’ and think of nothing but your perfect situation. This could be a dream holiday, ideal partner or simply thinking about doing nothing at all. You will be surprised at how effectively this can lower stress levels. Daydreaming is a natural stress busting technique. Allow your mind to wander for five minutes if you feel tense; maybe using your favourite picture or happy memory to help you drift off.
• Try this Indian massage technique for soothing the brain; for as long as possible gently massage the point above your nose in the middle of the forehead in a very light circular movement. Pressing the loose skin between your thumb and forefinger is also good for reducing stress and convenient to reach when you are on the phone.
• Walking meditation: Simply go for a walk to clear your mind of stress. Focus on your body and its every movement and breathe in deeply to let go of tension. If your mind wanders focus on the feeling of your feet moving heel to toe as you walk.
• Release the tension: Do you hunch your shoulders when you are stressed? Do you tighten your fists? Do you cross your arms? Do you wrap your legs around each other?
• Chamomile: One of the best herbs for relieving tension is chamomile as it has a gentle sedative effect. Drink a cup anytime you feel tense to help you relax. If you drink a cup before you go to bed this can help you sleep.
• Get a good night’s sleep: Women, especially when they are approaching the menopause often get disrupted sleep caused by hormonal fluctuations and when you are tired it is harder to deal with stress. Lack of sleep can also be a trigger for weight gain. For advice and tips on getting a good night’s sleep see the feature above.
• Beat your stress triggers: If you are losing sleep over a never-ending to do list or sick of losing your temper at the slightest little thing then you are probably suffering from brain overload. Use the techniques in the spring clean your mind article to help you deal with habitual stress triggers for good and you will feel much happier, healthier and lighter.

Anti-anxiety foods

Bananas:
Women who are depressed or anxious tend to have lower levels of vitamin B6, which is needed for the production of serotonin, the brain chemical that lifts mood. Low levels of vitamin B12 and folic acid can also cause anxiety. To boost your B vitamins, eat plenty of fish, eggs, nuts, seeds, beans like chickpeas and soya, bananas, and leafy green vegetables.

Nuts and seeds:
Foods rich in complex carbohydrates, such as wholegrains and beans, increase brain levels of tryptophan and, in turn, serotonin. A small amount of dietary carbohydrates, such as a handful of nuts and seeds eaten 30 minutes before a stressful situation, can help lower anxiety levels.

Whole grains:
Women who are deficient in the antioxidant mineral selenium also experience feelings of depression and anxiety. Selenium is found in fish and shellfish, whole grains, avocados.

Eggs:
Zinc is essential for the body to convert tryptophan into serotonin, the feel good chemical that can induce feelings of calm. Zinc is found in eggs and also in nuts, seeds, peanuts and sunflower seeds.

Oily fish:
Not only does eating oily fish reduce your risk for Alzheimer’s disease, but according to studies reported in 2003 by the US National Institute of Health, it reduces anxiety and depression as well.